If you still aren’t convinced, here are 17 other ways to tell: He checks your phone.And not just your call log and texts – he wants to know if you’ve been getting chatty with someone on Words with Friends, whose pictures you’ve been liking on Instagram, and if you ever deleted your Tinder app. It’s not enough that you let him look through your phone to make sure you aren’t talking to any of your exes, now he wants the passwords to your email and social media accounts to make sure you aren’t doing anything online that he wouldn’t approve of. Just because you don’t want your privacy invaded doesn’t mean you have something to hide, but your unwillingness to cooperate to his search and seizures just makes him all the more suspicious. You wanted to make plans with your friends for a change this weekend, but he isn’t having it.
Bonus points if he dances with kids at weddings, but not because of a sex thing — just because that is so damn adorable. If your man has a great relationship with his mom, buys his sisters' birthday gifts, and has lady friends who adore him? Dudes who tell tall tales outside of the bedroom usually have major shortcomings within it. You don't want to be with a robot who only understands how to have sex in a certain way or his robot brain explodes. His creed: Neither snow nor rain nor heat nor gloom of night stays your fit man from the swift completion of your orgasm. You want a dude who's had some difficulties in his life to know what it's like to work for something (something = your G-spot). The R&B singer recently put the beat-down on a Cash Money female employee for being at her secret boo Birdman’s LA crib. The female employee denied having a romantic relationship with her balling azz boss and even filed a restraining order against Keyshia. (Actually you can, but let's just go with it because chocolate ice cream is the best.)6. If he's got rhythm at da club, he's probably got rhythm on your own private dance floor (uh, that's your bed). Guys who are shitty to women are just bad news in general, and you can be damn sure they're terrible in bed because they don't care about the ladies. Smell is a huge thing when it comes to attraction, so if you can't get enough of your man's scent, you're gonna go HAM on him when you two are alone. Being good in bed requires improvisation — some people like certain things and other people like the opposite of those things. Which means he has what it takes to work as hard as necessary to get the job done. Guys who are too good-looking or too often praised for whatever reason get complacent. Not physically (though that doesn't hurt), but he's not too set in his ways.